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We were married on June 18th surrounded by all our friends and family. We live in Oklahoma and love it. It is beginning to feel more and more like home. I love the trees, our church and the people! Everyone has made us feel so welcome and a part of this community. We both have great jobs, that we love going to every day! Life is good, God is good!!

Monday, August 1, 2011

Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead...

We are encountering on a new adventure. Yup, The Schumacher's have drank the crazy Kool-aid.
We have decided to try a Juice Fast. But not just any juice fast. The Fast we are talking about comes from the documentary Fat Sick and Nearly Dead . In this documentary Joe Cross, who is from Australia, decides it is time to get his life under-control. He comes to America (why I'm not sure) to travel and to do this Juice Fast. He buys organic fruits and vegetables and juices them from the back of his car.


I would advise you to check out his website and to watch the documentary. Andrew came across it on Netflix and we watched it with some friends. By the end of the show I was nearly in tears when I saw the transformation that happened to this one man on there. It was beautiful.

In the documentary, someone used the phrase "committing suicide with food" (I'll watch it again tonight to get the correct quote... but that jumped out and grabbed my attention. Many of you know about my family history with suicide and you KNOW that I have personal issues with it. (really who shouldn't). But that is what we are doing as we are poisoning our bodies with processed garbage. I don't want to die one day only for my husband to have to tell our children that their mommy didnt love herself or them enough to take care of myself. 

Benefits of Doing the Reboot Entry followed by a healthy eating lifestyle: (which is what we are doing)

  • Boost the number of fruit/vegetable servings you can ingest in a day
  • Break the cycle of unhealthy eating
  • Retrain your brain to crave fruits and vegetables
  • Manage your weight
  • Promote a lifestyle that will lower risk for heart disease, stroke, diabetes, cancer, macular degeneration, cognitive decline and mental illness including depression
  • Promote longevity
  • Decrease aches and pains in joints and muscles
  • Improve your immunity
  • Promote increased energy levels
  • Promote healthy skin, nails and hair
  • Gain greater access to digestive enzymes locked away in whole produce through juicing

So many of those pertain to me personally. The ones that I am the most excited about are Promoting a lifestyle that will lower the risk for heart disease, stroke, diabetes, cancer, macular degeneration, cognitive decline and mental illness including depression; Promoting an increase in my energy levels and promoting healthy skin,  nails and hair.

If you know me you know that I suffer from depression (regardless if it is genetic or not... I want it GONE! I am done letting satan have a foothold in my emotions!), I also tend to have a VERY low level of energy unless I have recently had some caffeine or just taken a nap and my skin has given me issues sense I was a pre-teen.

So starting Monday August 8, 2011 the Schumacher's are going to do a Juice Fast for 15 days. This will be a big step for me. If you know my wonderful husband you will not doubt his ability to stick with it, but if you know me... you will know that I give in. I quit when things get hard. I run away. I give into my weaknesses so easily. I know that during this process there will be many things that change. I figure go big or go home right...? I'm going to tackle many issues in life... to be discussed tomorrow.

If you are interested in Juicing... feel free to contact me either via email or facebook. I'd love to share what I have learned... or give you over to my smarty pants husband who can answer. If you want to do this with us... contact me soon! We would love to build a community to fast with.

Blessings and love to you all!


{{All information was taken from the website Join the Reboot from the Fat Sick and Nearly Dead  website. I was not paid to write this review or to voice my opinion about the matter.}}
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Wednesday, July 27, 2011

A productive way to waste time

I have a confession... I have a new time waster... but this one is productive! It is the website PINTREST. It is a website where you can create categories and file all your favorite things.Anything that is on the web can be saved here. Everything from your favorite websites, recipes, helpful tips or crafty ideas... just to name a few. You can even follow your friends 'pins'. It is a fun way to keep track of what others are enjoying and to borrow ideas from others. In the past few weeks I have used the phrase ... "Did you pin it...?" or "did you see that pin...?" or "Check out my crafty pin board... I have something pinned there that would be great for..."

This is exciting for me because I have bookmarks saved all over the place. Now they are all in one place. I can be on any computer at any time and locate them. I dont have to have my computer or email it to myself or anything else.

One of the other fun things are the names of Pin Boards. Some people are just so darn creative... not me. As I have been pinning I have tried to be a little original with my titles... but all in all have failed. Oh well. Its fun to me.

Here are a few of the things that I have 'pinned' lately that I thought I would share.
This is from my YUM board. Yep, that's right... a board dedicated to food. Yummy food that I want to make some day. Some of which I have.


Don't these look delish? I think they would be perfect for a cookout appetizer. A beautiful summer treat.


Made this! It was heavenly. There are still leftovers in my fridge... or there were. My wonderful hubs ate the last of the lettuce today...



Isn't this beautiful? To make it patriotic I thought about adding strawberries between the layers and then decorating the top with blue berries and strawberries.


Is any one else as obsessed with black beans as I have been lately. I love them. I am constantly looking for new ways to make them. I even made black bean hummus... delish!



How can anything this ewwwwie and gooooie not make your mouth water. I think this might be a midnight snack for the hubs and I one weekend... maybe this weekend...



The next board is called : Never fully dressed with out a smile. Yes its true... I believe that your attitude really makes how you look... but it helps to have a good wardrobe to go with that smile.

Everything about this outfit screams fall and sophistication. Elegant yet... comfy. I love the boots and the black dress... is it possible that brown and black can indeed coexist? I think that yes, in this case it can. Seeing that the brown is very light. And the jean jacket... Thank the Lord someone else sees them as fashionable!! I've been wearing one with everything for YEARS... and it has finally caught on.



Yes this is Mrs. Katie Holmes... can you believe she is still married to that nut job? Ugh... anyways... this was the inspiration for my new haircut. I could put a picture of my head next to hers and I would practically look like the same person... yes, I've quit eating and lost 50 lbs to accomplish this look.... NOT! My hair looks nothing like this! Not even close! I'm fairly frustrated...  however, I how it might resemble it when it grows out a bit.





This screams "BEAUTIFUL FALL DAY" to me! I must add turquoise whenever possible. And I also MUST get myself some brown boots... perhaps flats though... let me know if you know where I should get them. Perhaps I will search Pintrest to see if I can find some.



Hello my name is Heather and I'm obsessed with all things turquoise! I'm ok with that... its a beautiful color. This would be my go to spring outfit... I must start looking now.







My next board is called "Lets get Crafty"... well yea... its all things crafty that I want to make... you know... when the house is done, and the kids are grown, and I retire.

I hate... HATE .... HATE my coffee table at home... but this one would be just lovely.

Source: savedbysuzy.blogspot.com via Heather on Pinterest



Crocheting with old sheets... SHUT THE FRONT DOOR! Brilliant. I could even see myself buying some cheap low quality sheets and dying them...



How simple... yard of material... cut arm holes. I'm still wondering why I haven't done this yet. Perfect for summer.


I have the ugliest ottoman ever in the history of owning ottomans! This would be just dandy... once the walls are painted... its happening.



Going on my Christmas list this year along with the newest Iphone, a trip to Washington DC, a new car, a maid and a pedicure will be a sewing machine. How can you get enough of this skirt... I would like one in black, brown, yellow, turquoise, orange, and probably magenta!


The last board I will share with you is called "Somewhere over the rainbow"... it is my dreamland board. It is for the day when the hubs and I get to make the announcement that we will be three. For the day when my pups move down from the number 3,4,& 5 spot in my life. For the day when I'm not sleeping, not eating right, not working out and dreaming of my life before having someone demand my constant attention. I could go on and on... but here are the precious things I have found... and fallen in love with. Each and every time I pin something to this board my heart skips a beat, I often find myself day dreaming and thinking of names or what they will look like... currently... my heart is racing... just at the thought of ...'somewhere over the rainbow...'

I have dreams of my little boy's room being decorated in Monsters. It will frighteningly fantastic!!



Could there be a sweeter little girls room? Soft and delicate and sparkly! Love.



I love the creative ways that people are photographing babies now. I think this is beautiful and symbolic. I love how the mom is wearing the same shirt and hold her her hands around the baby the same way she was holding her tummy.




Dear Jesus - Please give me a little boy... I must have this photo somewhere in my collection. Also, make him as handsome as his daddy! With blue eyes that will melt my heart!


With that my friends, I leave you. I apologize for the addiction that I have caused in your life. I hope and pray you do not hate me for this. If you need a request then find me on facebook and send me your email address and I'll send you one.

Happy Pinning!
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Monday, July 25, 2011

tonight..

Tonight my husband is inside busting up the tile in our bathroom. The guy who is putting our marble shower in is coming on Friday and we need all the tile out by then. Therefore, my husband gets to play with power tools and sweat and grunt and spit and stuff... therefore I'm sitting on my back porch watching the dogs chase each other around the yard and drinking a glass of wine. The hubs did come to me about 15 minutes into using the jackhammer device with a bloody lip... apparently a tile jumped up and gave him a punch in the mouth. I don't think the hubs minded though, he was back at it in no time. I am pretty sure that guys don't consider it a real 'project' unless there is an injury involved.
Because of the noise level inside I am outside with glass of wine and computer having a time out. My attitude has been stinky tonight.

Time to be random...
This is my view... yes that is Pintrest. I'm obsessed. I love it.
In sad news my beloved Mac has to go to the Apple Doctors this weekend.
I keep getting the lovely 'beach ball' anytime I do anything... It is not a fun process. Luckily I have Apple Care and this will not cost us a penny... or this would not be happening. I'm sad. I'm frustrated. But I'm also grateful. 

I cut my hair a few weeks ago... about 6 inches. I'm still adjusting to it but all in all I love it.
The earrings in this picture are now divorced. While having dinner with friends tonight, I realized that one of them was missing... we have been friends for a long time and it is sad to not have them as a pair anymore. :(

Its so muggy here. I'm sitting on my porch at 9:15 at night and I'm sweating. It is SICK. I'm so tired of sweating... but not tired enough to wish for the winter we had last year. I will take this heat any day.

I am in desperat need of a pedicure. Before I was married... this was a usual treat to myself. However, now that I live under a "budget" there just isnt the money for them. I'm ok with that... until I look at my toes. They are very sad looking.

This is my first summer in 10 years as 'white'! Typically by now I am a beautiful 'no tan lines bronze' color. It is beautiful. However, my husband isn't keen on skin cancer being in our future... so therefore... I'm white and splotchy.

My husband just asked me if I am going to shower tonight... I think he has seen the sweat pouring off me out here... haha.
I guess that was also my clue to get moving. Its hot and I need to get ready for bed. I was up way to late last night taking in the storm. It was beautiful.

Thanks for listening to the rambles of my mind right now... maybe its the heat, maybe its the wine... maybe it is just how I am. :)


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Friday, July 22, 2011

Its only been a year...

Its only been a year...

But here are some of the things I have learned over about marriage...


  1. Its not about being right or wrong... its about coming to an agreement. 
  2. What worked when you were single... doesn't work now. 
  3. When change happens, so does chaos. 
  4. We will rarely have the same ideas about something... and his ideas might be better than mine... 
  5. Quality time looks different for everyone
  6. Fully depend on God... not my husband. My husband is human and will let me down... God wont. 
  7. Its never too late to say "I'm sorry!" but ONLY say it if you mean it. 
  8. Sometimes the best times are the unplanned times
  9. TRUST your husband... he really does want what is best for me.
  10. Surround yourselves with family and friends who love the Lord... and will keep you on that track. 
  11. Laugh Laugh Laugh Laugh... find a reason to laugh together
  12. Know each others buttons... and avoid them.
  13. Homecooked meals always taste better when a good conversation is taking place. 
  14. Submission is not about being walked over... its about RESPECTING my husbands plans. 
  15. Its ok to be right, and to stand up for what I feel... if it is done respectfuly
  16. Be spontaneous when you can... it adds to the fun.
  17. Don't start a fight right before bed... it makes for a horrible nights sleep. 
  18. Brag about your husband... others need to know he is wonderful!! 
  19. ALWAYS communicate! Never stop! Always talk about what the next step is and how you are feeling about the process. If you keep it bottled up ... you will explode over something stupid. 
  20. Find time together as often as you can... even if it means turning off the phone, saying no to friends, skipping small group, or running away from town for the day or weekend.
So after a year... these are the things I have learned. I'm sure I'll double this list in the next year... we are still going through some growing pains, but I'm loving the process and really enjoying getting to know him more and more everyday!


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Tuesday, July 12, 2011

today...

(Heads up ... I'm going to ramble. But I'll throw in some pictures for entertainment... I apologize... its been that kinda day!)


  • We have officially taken over the house! It is full of our stuff (yes I actually doubted that we could fill this place with the things we have... but it is FULL!)
  • I am currently eating broccoli and cheese soup at home for lunch. I have a cold and it makes me feel better. It also makes me miss my best friend, who quit our relationship about this time last year. I'm working on a post about that, but until then, I'll eat my soup and enjoy the sweet memories we had together. 
  • We have spiders... nasty mean ugly spiders. The kinds known as 'brown recluse'! They are EVIL!! I hate their stinking guts and I want them all to DIE! Apparently ALL houses in the Ville have them... they just usually arn't as well seen as ours have been. We are getting this under control. 
  • Our sewer backed up 6 days after signing our contract! Our hot water heater is also going out. And did I mention we have spiders? But I love this house!! It is amazing... really... I'm not being sarcastic! 
  • I'm drinking water like I'm addicted to it. Seriously... I could float the Titanic with the water I have drank in the past two days. More water means more trips to the bathroom. Therefor on my 3rd trip last night, I became very grateful that we have a bathroom in our bedroom! 
  • My father in law comes this weekend to help with some more 'home repairs'... I love that term... 'home repairs' - it means we can actually... REPAIR something!! 


This is the hubs and I with our Realtor and the previous homeowner. He is a precious precious man. But he likes to say 'damn' and 'hell' a lot. And even though I can be overheard muttering such profanities at times... it shocks me when I hear it from him...


Andrew and some friends painted the ceilings for us... yes... that is WHITE up there... I lost that fight, but it looks lovely and I'm content with it. 


Andrew's family came to help us. His sister made a trip all the way from St. Andrews to help us move in, wasnt that sweet of her. Alright... she didnt come just to help... but she did make us one of her many stops! 

Our first lunch at the new house was my 'specialty' sandwiches and fruit!! It was quite enjoyable!

The weekend we were moving into the house... we dog sat our favorite boxers. They were so well behaved and got lots of extra special treatment that our stinky hound dogs didnt get. I love these dogs!!

I broke the first dish in our new house... it was a big bummer.These are my favorite glasses... oh well. It had to happen sometime.

July 4th I made sour dough pancakes and they were YUMMMY! (that reminds me... I gotta feed my dough!!) Andrew has this unique ability to get the most awkward pictures of me!

This is Aiden, you can read all about him here.

Around 10 am on the 4th we decided to have some of our favorite friends over for dinner... note that these are just SOME of our favorites, if we would have invited everyone... there would have been NO room.


These guys crack me up. We have lots of fun when we are with them. Their little girl turns 1 this weekend and is my BFF!

Ryan and Andrew work together and his wife is going to be teaching school this fall. Their little guy Aiden is 6 months old and so much fun!!

I was taking the pictures so Andrew decided he needed one with my food and his...

Josh and Ann from our small group!! These guys are so much fun! Last winter they came and rescued us from our house in the midst of being snowed in.

Me and my love! This guy makes my day!!



Us with our realtor in front of the house with the SOLD sign.

My dessert for the past 2 nights chocolate banana shake!! DELISH!

Andrew's dessert - a little frozen yogurt COVERED in fruit. I was MUCH happier than he was after dessert time!

OH Watermelon!! This is what Summer is all about...

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“A house is made of walls and beams; a home is built with love and dreams.”

We have a home.
There was a bank transaction, a few signatures and the hand off of keys ... and the house is ours! As soon as we left the bank (after getting the water switched) we went to our new home.We marveled in it. We dreamed! We cherished the moment. Then we left... the 'old man smell' was getting to us!

We got the ceiling painted on Saturday and Sunday. That was fun... I helped 'cut in'. That takes more time and skill than rolling the ceiling. Andrew got to roll, he is such a slacker. HA! Just kidding!! He is going to kill me for that. He the hard part of rolling ! He did great... and didnt complain at all. I know his neck and back must have been killing him. He is such a hard worker. I'm very proud of our ceilings. OH what color are they?? They are Ceiling White. We had quite the debate over this. I wanted them to be 1/2 the color of the walls... but he put his foot down (when someone offered to give us Ceiling White) and said that we will be JUST fine with white ceilings. So like a good wife I backed down... I've been told before to 'pick my battles' and so I did just that. I'm sure there will be another one in the next few days worth fighting.

On Monday my favorite person (even though I didn't meet her face to face) came to the house. The cleaning lady. She did a fabulous job. Our house no longer had an 'old man smell' to it. It was wonderful. Then my next favorite person came along... the carpet cleaning man! The carpets were so soft and fresh when we came by last night. I fell in love. Nothing feels better than walking on soft clean carpet.
We both soaked the moment in... knowing this is the VERY LAST TIME our carpets will ever feel that way again.
“Home is the place where it feels right to walk around without shoes”

After we took in the cleanliness of the house we decided to pray over the house. We wanted to set a special time to do this, but decided that this might be the last time we have 'time' to do it. We walked from room to room praying over the things that will happen there.
In the living room we prayed for :
  • The small groups that will be held there
  • The interactions of friends
  • The memories made with family 
In the kitchen and dinning room we prayed for:
  • The meals that will be prepared
  • The goodies made for others
  • The conversations that happen over the dinner table
  • The meals shared with friends
In the Bedrooms we prayed for:
  • Safety and comfort for whomever they hold
  • Joyful times, and laughter
  • We prayed for our children, who will someday live in those bedrooms. (yes you better believe that made me cry!) 
On the back porch we prayed for:
  • The gatherings that would happen
  • The game nights 
  • The dinners 
It was beautiful. The house now feels like ours.
We walked around and got an idea of what furniture we want where and how it is going to look. We are loosing quite a bit of bedroom space but we are getting an extra room and 2 living areas!! I'm thrilled! God has truly blessed us beyond what we deserve. My biggest prayer is that we use His blessings to bless others, and that no one will ever feel uncomfortable or be turned away from our house. I want to have memories of laughter and love coming from bedrooms. I know there will be sad times, there will be overwhelming times,  but I hope that our memories are over flowing with the happy times!


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Friday, June 24, 2011

This is it...

Plans change. Things happen. Sometimes this is good... sometimes this brings distress and frustration. In this case... it is a little bit of both. Here is what happened:
At the suggestion of Andrew's dad we thought it would be great to get into the house this weekend and get the ceilings painted.  Yesterday Andrew mentioned this to our realtor and asked if it would be possible. She said probably, but why don't we just close early? Andrew said "I don't know, why don't we?"
So that lead us through a busy busy busy afternoon of getting things in line.
All of our paperwork is in and approved therefore... as of this afternoon... we will be homeowners!! WOW... I have had many titles before:
  • daughter
  • friend
  • teacher
  • student
  • lover
  • cook
  • cleaner
  • babysitter
  • assistant
  • boss
  • dog feeder
  • nail biter 
  • coffee conosuer 
  • eater
  • daydreamer 
  • slacker
  • bag lady
  • shopper
  • driver
  • wife
  • fun sucker
  • dingy 
  • clueless 
  • worshiper
  • church lady
  • (The list could go on and on ...) 

Lots of titles... but NEVER homeowner!! 
This is exciting... this is stressful!!
Here is the plan for the weekend.

After Lunch: Sign the next 30 years of our lives away....
Tonight: We pack like we have never packed before. Our house is about half packed now. I was counting on my extra week to get it done.
Tomorrow: Andrew has clients (including me and a friend) until 11.
Tomorrow afternoon: We paint ceilings and pack pack pack
Sunday:  CHURCH... gotta go to church!! Then MOVE!! We find everyone we can with a pick-up and load up our boxes and get them loaded into the garage. Some furniture will be moved in as well. Garage will be PACKED TO THE BRIM... Rent house... as empty as possible!!
Monday: Someone is coming to the new house to clean the carpets and house for us! (GOD LOVE THEM!!)
Tuesday night: ALL furniture moved from old house to new house!! All beds set up in new house! Bathroom unpacked.
Wednesday night: Inlaws coming to survey the work that needs to be done. God blessed us with two very handy daddies!! Andrew's dad gets the first call to duty. Dinner with them to discuss... the damage!
Thursday: Bible study
Friday: UNPACK
Saturday: UNPACK
Sunday... FUN DAY!! (I think I'll schedule a nap)
MONDAY - TUESDAY : work with inlaws.
Wednesday - Sunday: My mom is here to help get us all unpacked and settled.
Monday: Figure out life in a new house...

Some changes that this new house will bring are:

  • Frozen Custard at Jareds every night of my life... (or I'll dream about it at least!) 
  • Longer drive to work for Andrew, this means he will not be biking to work anymore. I know he will miss this... 
  • Shorter drive to work for me... this is so good... I struggle with punctuality. 
  • smaller kitchen... guess that means less space to clean so that is good! 
  • Dogs will no longer live in our bedroom!! GLORY BE!! I'm so tired of them being EVERYWHERE!! They are not our children. Even our children will have their own room!! The dogs will get to come inside in the evenings but... they are dogs. They will have a doggy door that will lead into the workshop if they need to escape the heat or wind or cold or rain... or if they just want to be inside. BUT... THEY ARE DOGS!! They will be ok! (well except Cami... she will have emotional damage because of this change... poor girl!) 
 Ok thats all for now... I'm sure there will be MANY funny stories to tell of our adventures over the next few weeks.

Did I mention I get to see my sister-in-law during all this?? I'm so excited!!

Homeowners!!




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